I never used to really listen before, and I missed out on a lot.
When you really listen to someone, you can tell what is in someone's mind. What they are really thinking.
e.g. hide your tears, suppress your emotions - they are saying hide yourself
e.g. you do this, you do that, you sit, you sit here - they are trying to control you.
e.g. I want this, I don't want this. You talk, you don't talk - they have a confused mind.
Now what are you thinking and is this what you want in your mind? If not, change it, simple.
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